I get the grief and the anger. Nobody is saying that you don't have a right to that. Like I said, it's understandable. It's more than understandable. Which is the reason that I'm going to leave off on the whole thing with Brainiac 5. If nothing else, he's an adult and more than capable of fighting his own fights, if that's what he wants to do.
However. What I will say is that, as much as you have a right to that anger? You don't have a right to be an asshole. And you especially don't have a right to be an asshole to somebody whose only crime is that they were seen in public with somebody that you are angry at. Because that's what you're doing. You're lashing out at somebody who is only connected to your grief by the faintest of threads.
I get your anger. I do and I feel for you. I am still sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is probably one of hardest feelings to ever have to deal with. But you can't take that feeling out on people who aren't involved. It's not fair to them and it's not fair to those you're grieving for, either, Ale-ha Ha-sholom.
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I get the grief and the anger. Nobody is saying that you don't have a right to that. Like I said, it's understandable. It's more than understandable. Which is the reason that I'm going to leave off on the whole thing with Brainiac 5. If nothing else, he's an adult and more than capable of fighting his own fights, if that's what he wants to do.
However. What I will say is that, as much as you have a right to that anger? You don't have a right to be an asshole. And you especially don't have a right to be an asshole to somebody whose only crime is that they were seen in public with somebody that you are angry at. Because that's what you're doing. You're lashing out at somebody who is only connected to your grief by the faintest of threads.
I get your anger. I do and I feel for you. I am still sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is probably one of hardest feelings to ever have to deal with. But you can't take that feeling out on people who aren't involved. It's not fair to them and it's not fair to those you're grieving for, either, Ale-ha Ha-sholom.