Let me share a secret with you: even if you think it's your right to blame someone for your loss, blaming them never helps. If you hold on to that anger - if that's all you think about - then the grief never gets better. It festers, and it poisons you, and it never heals.
So yeah, if you want to blame someone and spend the rest of your life as a toxic garbage fire because of it, go ahead! We can't stop you from doing that. But take it from someone who's lost more people than you've probably ever known and spent a long time looking for someone to blame: that is a shitty way to live your life.
[It's probably more than he should say in public- no, fuck that, it's definitely more than he should say in public- but he has to try. Plus, if he can divert the asshole's attention away from Robbie, it'll be worth it.]
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So yeah, if you want to blame someone and spend the rest of your life as a toxic garbage fire because of it, go ahead! We can't stop you from doing that. But take it from someone who's lost more people than you've probably ever known and spent a long time looking for someone to blame: that is a shitty way to live your life.
[It's probably more than he should say in public- no, fuck that, it's definitely more than he should say in public- but he has to try. Plus, if he can divert the asshole's attention away from Robbie, it'll be worth it.]